💍 Guide to Planning a Bachelorette Party in 2025 on Martha's Vineyard
Insider Tips, Group Activities & Local Favorites for an Epic Vineyard Getaway
Martha’s Vineyard is the ideal destination for a fun and memorable bachelorette party. After experiencing three of them firsthand, I know exactly which activities, restaurants, and experiences make for the best weekend. This guide is packed with my personal recommendations to help you plan an unforgettable trip:
🛬 Getting to Martha’s Vineyard & Where to Stay
Most bachelorette groups take the Steamship Authority ferry from Woods Hole (on Cape Cod), but flights are available to MVY Airport from Boston, NYC, and DC. If you’re visiting in peak season, July and August, book accommodations early. There aren’t that many Airbnbs/VRBOs for large groups available late in the season. June and September offer great weather with fewer crowds.
The best areas to stay are Edgartown and Oak Bluffs. Both have walkable access to restaurants, nightlife, and shopping. A car isn’t necessary since Ubers, taxis, and bikes make getting around easy. Use 🔗 MV Travel Guidance to answer any more questions!
Before you arrive, I recommend booking at least one dinner reservation, one activity, and ordering provisions.
🎉 Group Activities & Experiences
The best bachelorette weekends balance relaxation, fun, and unique experiences. Book one of the following for your group prior to arrival:
📍 MV Picnics for custom bachelorette setups
📍 Mad Max Sailing Adventure for a classic catamaran experience
📍 Social Coast Mobile Bar for private mixology sessions
📍Martha’s Vineyard Cheesery for Private Cheese Classes
📍 Grey Barn Farm Cheese Tastings for Farmstead Cheese Tastings
📍 Forever MV for private permanent jewelry parties and pop-ups
📍 Stefanie Wolf Designs for in-store permanent bracelet appointments
🔗 Yoga & Wellness Guide for top-rated instructors and spa options
🔗 Private Charters Boats to book for your group
🔗 Martha’s Vineyard Private Chef Guide to have a chef come to you
🍽️ Where to Eat & Drink
Dining with a group on Martha’s Vineyard takes a little planning. Many restaurants are small, and wait times can be long, so it’s best to make reservations when possible and have a backup plan for walk-in spots. Here’s where to eat, drink, and keep the party going.
🍳 Best Brunch & Coffee Spots
📍 Behind the Bookstore (Edgartown) – Hidden café with top-tier coffee and breakfast
📍 Espresso Love (Edgartown) – Casual spot for coffee, smoothies, and sandwiches
📍 Aalia’s Coffee (Oak Bluffs) - A perfect oat milk latte and pastry for on the go
📍 Black Dog Tavern (Vineyard Haven) – Classic dine-in waterfront breakfast spot
🍔 Lunch/Dinner for Large Groups
📍 Lookout Tavern (Oak Bluffs) – Sushi, seafood with an ocean view. Worth a bit of a wait
📍 19 Raw Oyster Bar (Edgartown) – Fresh oysters and upscale seafood, reservations available
📍 The Covington (Edgartown) – Cozy, elevated dining - make a reservation
📍 Seafood Shanty (Edgartown) – Seafood spot with harbor views, best for walk-in groups
📍 Pawnee House (Oak Bluffs) – Modern American menu with a great cocktail list, make a reservation
A bachelorette weekend isn’t complete without a night out. Whether you’re looking for dance floors, live music, or a laid-back bar scene, Martha’s Vineyard has plenty of options.
🎶 Where to Go Out for Drinks
These are my go-to spots for cocktails, dancing, and nightlife.
For Dancing & Late-Night Fun
📍 The Ritz (Oak Bluffs) – The island’s best dive bar for live music and DJs
📍 Port Hunter (Edgartown) – Lively bar with craft cocktails and occasional dance nights
📍 Back Bar at Atria (Edgartown) – Speakeasy-style cocktail bar with a cozy atmosphere
For a More Low-Key Bar Scene
📍 Nomans (Oak Bluffs) – Casual spot with outdoor seating, live music, and games
📍 The Wharf (Edgartown) – Bar and pub that gets lively late at night
📍 Bad Martha (Edgartown) – Local brewery with outdoor seating
🌙 Where to Grab Late-Night Food
📍 Back Door Donuts (Oak Bluffs) – Fresh, warm donuts
📍 Porto Pizza (Vineyard Haven) – Classic pizza joint
📍 Tigerhawk Sandwich Co. (Oak Bluffs) – Sandwiches
📍 Nancy’s (Oak Bluffs) – Fried seafood and Dirty Bananas
💧 Late-Night IV Hydration for the Morning After
📍 Salty Solutions Hydration + Wellness – Mobile IV therapy
📍 Must-See Sights & Things to Do
Between planned activities and nights out, make time to explore the best of Martha’s Vineyard. From scenic photo spots to relaxing beach days, these must-see locations will round out your bachelorette weekend.
📸 Instagram-Worthy Locations
📍 Edgartown Lighthouse – A classic waterfront photo spot with harbor views
📍 Ocean Park – A must-see in Oak Bluffs with a scenic gazebo
📍 Gingerbread Houses – Colorful, whimsical cottages perfect for a group photo
🏖️ Beach Day Recommendations
📍 State Beach – Calm waters and soft sand, perfect for swimming
📍 Inkwell Beach – Easy access from Oak Bluffs for a quick beach stop
📍 South Beach – Best for waves and a classic “beach day” experience
🎟️ Local Events to Check Out
🔗 MVacay Weekend Events Guide – Weekly list of things to do
🔗 Artisan & Farmers Markets – Browse handmade goods and fresh produce
🔗 Martha’s Vineyard Bucket List – More must-do activities for first-time visitors
💡 FAQ + Pro Tips for a Smooth Trip
🍷 Alcohol & Food Provisions
Stocking up on drinks and snacks is key for any bachelorette weekend.
Liquor Store That Delivers: Vintage MV Wine & Spirits offers curated selections and delivery.
Grocery Delivery: Vineyard Grocer and Stop & Shop Peapod via Instacart offer pre-arrival grocery stocking.
Prepared Food Options: 🔗MV Catering Guide lists private chefs and takeout for groups.
🚕 Do You Need a Car on Martha’s Vineyard?
Most bachelorette groups don’t need a car if they stay in Edgartown or Oak Bluffs. The island has taxis, Ubers, and bike rentals, making it easy to get around.
🔗 How to Get Around MV for transportation tips
📅 Do You Need to Make Reservations in Advance?
Yes. Dinner spots, boat charters, and group activities book up quickly, especially in the summer. For large groups, aim to book 4-6 weeks in advance.
🔗 Which Restaurants Take Reservations?
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